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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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Semi-retirement still includes a business

Nov 2019Interview snapshot · published 2019

Life at the time

  • As a staffing-company co-owner, he worked to his own schedule and avoided the office commute when possible.

How it felt

  • He described an excellent work-life balance, while also acknowledging some struggle with being semi-retired. “I’m kind of semi-retired and I’m struggling with that a bit.”

Financial freedom kept opening doors to new kinds of work

Oct 2019

Life at the time

  • Built furniture, repaired watches and began making a plywood clock.
  • Lived in a small fixer-upper with a vegetable garden.

How it felt

  • Enjoyed practical learning but disliked the maintenance attached to homeownership. “not really something that I enjoy”
  • Found purchased experiences harder to enjoy after learning to make things himself. “harder to appreciate bought experiences”

He protected the weekends—and discovered he wanted to protect the weekdays too.

Oct 2019Recalled in 2020

Life at the time

  • House projects and motorcycling filled the first three months.
  • He spent weekdays at home after years of commuting across states.

How it felt

  • The transition felt unusually smooth. “seamless”
  • He barely thought about his old job. “My newfound freedom”

A social weekly calendar suits this retirement

Sep 2019 · Year 5Interview snapshot · published 2019

Life at the time

  • Five years into retirement, he took part in golf, bridge, Toastmasters, walking, swimming and travel.

How it felt

  • He found the adjustment easy after considering how he wanted to spend his time, and enjoyed retirement more than expected. “I knew I would enjoy it, but not to this extent.”

He left the office, but a screen could still consume the day.

Sep 2019Recalled in 2020

Life at the time

  • He kept his longstanding early-rising routine after leaving the office.
  • A side business continued while accrued leave extended his pay.

How it felt

  • He felt ready and positive about leaving. “It’s been awesome”
  • Keeping balance was harder than finding things to do. “struggled with balance/routine”

A second retirement begins with fewer simultaneous changes

Aug 2019

Life at the time

  • He left a short experiment back in his former industry.
  • The household was back in England after the Cyprus move.

How it felt

  • The return revealed how much both he and the job had changed. “my own needs had changed”
  • A financial buffer reassured him as he reconsidered purpose and relationships. “That extra buffer feels really good”

The world tour ended. Teaching gave the quieter life another dimension.

Jul 2019 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Spent long stretches traveling with his family.
  • Kept limits on blogging so it would not overtake family time.

How it felt

  • Found the strongest reward in being together. “We are happiest when we’re together”
  • Wanted publishing to remain secondary to the retirement it documented. “I won’t let my blog interfere with my early retirement (yet)”

He slept through the first adjustment. Later, even Sunday evenings felt free.

Jul 2019 · Year 4

Life at the time

  • Family dinners, workshop projects and occasional delivery work filled his days.
  • His wife crafted and made things for their granddaughters.

How it felt

  • They enjoyed choosing how to spend their time. “no demands on my time”
  • Both still missed some school colleagues. “miss some of our coworkers”

Permission to enjoy retirement takes time

Jul 2019Interview snapshot · published 2019

Life at the time

  • After leaving a second consulting career, he did some oil prospecting and served on a school-board finance committee while becoming more involved in church.

How it felt

  • It took nearly two years to feel comfortable, with guilt possibly connected to his wife still working. “It’s taken me the better part of two years to get really comfortable with retirement.”

The empty calendar felt strange. The gym supplied friends and a beginning.

Jul 2019 · Year 2

Life at the time

  • Pickleball, shared meals and a lunch club supplied regular social contact.
  • Cooking and a weekly movie night became pleasures.

How it felt

  • He no longer timed every task for efficiency. “a clock in my head”
  • Some structure helped them avoid habits they did not want. “Having some structure”

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