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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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Owning more places can mean having less free time

May 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-07

Life at the time

  • Retired while her husband still worked, she handled cooking, cleaning and upkeep across a home and vacation properties.

How it felt

  • She found the maintenance burden substantial and questioned whether they could use everything they owned. “the work involved with taking care of all these assets is tremendous”

Leaving at thirty-four brought room to explore—and discomfort with withdrawals

May 2021Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • He quit a long-held controls-engineering job.
  • Investment income replaced most of the household salary.

How it felt

  • He had lost faith in his boss. “lost faith”
  • He was unsure what he wanted to do next. “a bit lost”

He learned to stop being busy. Then life overturned the plan.

Mar 2021

Life at the time

  • A relationship ended and a health condition disrupted running and familiar routines.
  • Returned to paid work and began a new relationship.

How it felt

  • Found that the original retirement plan no longer matched his circumstances. “My life decided it didn’t want to conform to the plan.”
  • Reported being happy again in a life that had changed shape. “I’m generally happy now.”

She quit her career. Years later, she quit performing retirement.

Mar 2021

Life at the time

  • Wrote another book and established a garden during pandemic isolation.
  • Went without planned travel and ordinary contact with friends and family.

How it felt

  • Became more focused on seeing loved ones than on going somewhere new. “I can’t wait until I can hug my dad.”
  • Felt less need for other people’s approval. “I’ve learned to care a lot less about the approval of others”

Financial independence does not immediately loosen the paycheck habit

Mar 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-06

Life at the time

  • After leaving a corporate software role and trying financial advice, he moved into a less lucrative public-sector software job.

How it felt

  • Even without needing the income, he found himself unready to abandon regular earnings and preferred the new work's sense of fulfillment. “it seems more fulfilling thus far.”

A trial retirement became permanent when family time won.

Mar 2021Journal shared in 2022

Life at the time

  • He turned down one consulting offer while considering another.
  • A family holiday was free of his usual work calls.

How it felt

  • He did not miss the job itself. “Don’t miss work at all”
  • Explaining his new status to friends felt awkward. “a weird dynamic”

Pickleball joins the home-project list

Feb 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-06

Life at the time

  • After leaving nursing in September 2020, she tackled home projects and household work, then joined a gym and began regular pickleball.

How it felt

  • She was surprised by her happiness in retirement, though she still wanted interests beyond an eventually finite project list. “I definitely need to find some new hobbies.”

Swimming, service and a gradual exit from client work

Feb 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-03

Life at the time

  • He swam, played tennis and drove older neighbors to appointments, while still accepting occasional court-reporting assignments after his 2019 retirement.

How it felt

  • He felt ready to leave full-time work; pandemic restrictions disrupted social life, and spending savings remained uncomfortable. “I am slowly drifting into obscurity as far as work.”

She rested first. In the second year, a creative business found its place.

Feb 2021Recalled in 2023

Life at the time

  • Walks, books, naps and golf lessons filled her first weeks.
  • Her husband unexpectedly left his job soon afterward.

How it felt

  • She felt elated and relieved of accumulated stress. “I was elated”
  • They could decompress together. “An enormous weight was lifted”

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