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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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Volunteering is more appealing than another consulting job

Oct 2024Interview snapshot · published 2025-01

Life at the time

  • Fully retired again in April 2024, she began volunteering at church and stayed near her aging parents.

How it felt

  • Relief from work stress made her reluctant to return to paid work unless finances required it. “I have started to volunteer with my church”

Retirement became better when hobbies stopped being assignments

Sep 2024 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Spends much of his time on games, audiobooks and family, alongside occasional classes and projects.
  • Has become more sedentary while recovering from an Achilles injury.

How it felt

  • Is happier after dropping the pressure to make hobbies feel like jobs. “quickly sucked the joy out of them”
  • Notices greater patience with loved ones and little boredom. “I have so much more patience now”

Her maternity leave became retirement. Parenting kept the calendar full.

Sep 2024 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • School runs, children’s illnesses and family routines structured the week.
  • Small coaching projects and reconnecting with friends fit between those demands.

How it felt

  • Watching the children develop was deeply rewarding. “extremely rewarding”
  • Travel with young children proved more exhausting than she had anticipated. “pretty exhausting”

He sold the company. It took years to stop being its founder.

Aug 2024 · At departure

Life at the time

  • Tried another startup after selling his company and spending time with the acquirer.
  • Stopped the second attempt and left work in August.

How it felt

  • Recognized that the new venture had brought back his old overwork habits. “I fell right back into my old overwork habits”
  • Questioned why he was sacrificing family time for a goal already reached. “grinding for a goal I already reached”

The layoff ended the waiting. Retirement became an experiment.

Jul 2024 · At departure

Life at the time

  • Received layoff notice and severance after considering leaving a stressful workplace.
  • Planned travel and a kitchen renovation; neither was a completed retirement routine yet.

How it felt

  • Had come to dread going to work. “I dreaded coming into work every day.”
  • Believed he might already have enough money to leave, although the next phase was unsettled. “I think I should already have enough to FI/RE.”

Six months off revealed a taste for short contracts

Jun 2024 · Year 0.5Recalled in 2024

Life at the time

  • Spent the first six months without paid work.
  • Devoted time to children, getting fitter and household projects.

How it felt

  • Work stress took about three months to ease. “Took about 3 months”
  • Eventually became bored enough to accept a small contract. “Got a bit bored”

An open-ended break reveals a comfortable spending level

May 2024Interview snapshot · published 2024-09

Life at the time

  • A year into indefinite time away from work, the couple found themselves spending below their planned ceiling and enjoying an active lifestyle.

How it felt

  • He was more concerned about waiting too long to leave work than about having left too soon. “I’m more worried about waiting too long”

A three-month trial finally broke the work habit

Feb 2024 · Year 0.25

Life at the time

  • Helped with elder care and a chronically ill relative.
  • Played games, learned cooking and explored a game engine.

How it felt

  • Loved choosing how to spend each day. “every day is Saturday”
  • Preferred modest trips and home life to exhausting constant travel. “It’s the best feeling in the world.”

He left at 54. Only afterward did he see the burnout.

2024

Life at the time

  • Left work at 54 while a spouse continued some paid work.
  • Kept side projects and possible income as options for the next stage.

How it felt

  • Was excited about the future soon after leaving. “I'm very excited about the future”
  • Valued the control over time that earlier effort had made possible. “all that hard work and chaos ultimately got me this freedom, which is priceless.”

She expected new ambitions. First came a welcome, quiet pause.

2024Recalled in 2026

Life at the time

  • Walking, reading and long mornings filled the first six months.
  • The book, business and extensive travel she had imagined did not immediately happen.

How it felt

  • Doing little felt surprisingly good. “weird, cozy, liberating fog”
  • Freedom from being observed or scheduled brought relief. “I felt free”

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