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Writing helps give an involuntary retirement shape

Aug 2018Interview snapshot · published 2018

Life at the time

  • After leaving accounting because of disability, The Retirement Spot author read, wrote, sang karaoke and visited grandchildren while his wife continued working.

How it felt

  • He found the balance uneven and started blogging in part to keep himself occupied. “That is one reason I started my blog.”

Freedom did not transform him overnight. Parenting made it real.

Apr 2018 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Spent his first retirement year finding new uses for the available time.
  • Made progress in running and strength training.

How it felt

  • Did not feel transformed simply because his job had ended. “I felt the exact same.”
  • Was still working out the shape of the next stage. “I’m still finding my way”

The deadlines disappeared quickly. The professional identity took longer.

Apr 2018Recalled in 2023

Life at the time

  • Reading, television and daytime walks replaced deadline-driven work.
  • Retirement allowed time with a gravely ill father.

How it felt

  • Freedom felt blissful, even oddly illicit on weekdays. “was bliss”
  • Work-related dreams lingered after the job ended. “being naughty”

She left her title behind. Time together mattered more as health changed.

2017Recalled in 2019

Life at the time

  • She joined her already-retired partner after leaving healthcare work.
  • Early alarms and commuting stopped.

How it felt

  • Her professional title quickly lost its hold. “happy to be a retiree”
  • She felt ready for the change on her own terms. “there was no adjustment”

He became the homemaker. When she retired, they had to divide life again.

2017Recalled in 2022

Life at the time

  • He tried another short-lived job after leaving his main career.
  • Cooking, household care and exercise later gave him a workable schedule.

How it felt

  • At first, an open calendar raised questions about identity. “who am I”
  • The second departure felt easier with routines already in place. “the first few months were easier”

He escaped Sunday-night dread. A decade later, even freedom needed downtime.

Feb 2016

Life at the time

  • Reported that his wife had left her job after earlier negotiations kept her working.
  • The couple could now share freedom from a nine-to-five schedule.

How it felt

  • In Justin’s account, his wife was uncertain about how to fill the open time. “Her biggest worry becomes the emptiness”
  • He described her choosing family and freedom while still wanting to contribute; this was his account of her transition. “she chose freedom and family over helping other people in the corporate world.”

A stay-at-home father finds a public voice

Nov 2015

Life at the time

  • Cared for young children and fitted his own afternoon nap around theirs.
  • Built Financially Alert as an online business and community.

How it felt

  • Loved being home after leaving office demands. “I loved it”
  • Still wanted a challenge and connection beyond the initial freedom. “there was still something missing”

Retirement, a startup and a calmer division of responsibilities

2015Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • He left his corporate sales position.
  • Former colleagues drew him into a healthcare startup.

How it felt

  • The abrupt end of the old pace felt harsh. “very harsh”
  • Being comfortable with retirement took time. “took me a while”

Losing the job was painful. Life afterward was mostly good—and sometimes boring.

2015Recalled in 2019

Life at the time

  • A brief attempt at consulting ended after his corporate departure.
  • Weekday errands gradually stopped feeling unusual.

How it felt

  • Being fired hurt his sense of professional worth. “it was humiliating”
  • The everyday adjustment proved easier than anticipated. “surprisingly easy”

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