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Permission to enjoy retirement takes time

After leaving a second consulting career, he did some oil prospecting and served on a school-board finance committee while becoming more involved in church. It took nearly two years to feel comfortable, with guilt possibly connected to his wife still working.

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Net worth at retirement2019-07-08 · Household
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Interview snapshot1
2019
Post 01Interview snapshot · published 2019

Permission to enjoy retirement takes time

“Felt somewhat guilty and antsy, even with plenty of things to keep me busy.”

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Life at the time

  • After leaving a second consulting career, he did some oil prospecting and served on a school-board finance committee while becoming more involved in church.

How it felt

  • It took nearly two years to feel comfortable, with guilt possibly connected to his wife still working. “It’s taken me the better part of two years to get really comfortable with retirement.”
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Last checked Sep 2026. The accounts are self-reported. This is one interview snapshot. It does not establish a follow-up history or present circumstances.

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