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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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He kept the running group and shed most of the workweek.

Nov 2020 · Year 5

Life at the time

  • Running, tennis, fishing and shared meals shaped time with his wife.
  • Consulting and board service preserved professional and community connections.

How it felt

  • He felt content with the balance. “I’m content.”
  • Consulting was becoming less interesting, raising the question of another challenge. “a little boring now”

Property projects and unexpected friendships

Aug 2020Interview snapshot · published 2020-12

Life at the time

  • The retired former project-management consultant worked on his property and formed new friendships.

How it felt

  • He reported greater contentment as he managed expectations and appreciated friendships without demanding a particular intensity. “I’m more content, and more importantly, so is my wife.”

He had built an organization. Leaving gave him time to look after himself.

Jul 2020Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • He stepped down from running the nonprofit he had founded.
  • Limited consulting maintained a connection without the former workload.

How it felt

  • More time to himself felt like a gift. “an incredible blessing”
  • He did not miss the pressure of leading the organization. “I don’t miss work at all”

An arts career grows after the technology career ends

Jan 2020Interview snapshot · published 2020

Life at the time

  • After retiring from technology management at 57, she pursued largely self-funded creative work alongside exercise, travel and helping others.

How it felt

  • She described a busy retirement rather than a slowdown, with family and friends still filling her time. “I have not slowed down at all.”

He escaped the grind. Then learned to stop optimizing every day.

2020 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Built a loose weekly rhythm around climbing, games, films and theater.
  • Spent more time with friends and family, with substantial volunteering still planned.

How it felt

  • Felt calmer and more willing to leave a day unoptimized. “I have a much more laid back attitude with life.”
  • Found that a routine reduced the effort of choosing between appealing activities. “Making decisions takes energy and effort”

Learning to slow down after a fast-moving career

Dec 2019Interview snapshot · published 2019

Life at the time

  • After retiring from pharmaceuticals at 54, he kept limited consulting and made time for exercise, friends, volunteering and travel.

How it felt

  • He enjoyed retirement, but had to adjust to fading work contacts and a slower pace with his wife. “I learned how to downshift my 100 mph activity level.”

A social weekly calendar suits this retirement

Sep 2019 · Year 5Interview snapshot · published 2019

Life at the time

  • Five years into retirement, he took part in golf, bridge, Toastmasters, walking, swimming and travel.

How it felt

  • He found the adjustment easy after considering how he wanted to spend his time, and enjoyed retirement more than expected. “I knew I would enjoy it, but not to this extent.”

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