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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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Projects without deadlines leave room for play

Jun 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-07

Life at the time

  • He divided retirement between personally chosen projects and unstructured fun, learning welding and experimenting with electronics and programming.

How it felt

  • He welcomed autonomy and deliberately avoided recreating the deadline-driven structure of employment. “The remaining 2/3rds are for unstructured and planned fun.”

A quiet home life made room for creativity and care

May 2021

Life at the time

  • Made doll clothes and greeting cards; her now-retired husband worked on his own hobbies.
  • Supported her parents through medical care and increasing needs.

How it felt

  • Was grateful retirement made caregiving possible, though some days felt difficult. “some days I just want to escape”
  • Still loved controlling her schedule and letting less important things go. “lack of a schedule”

She rested first. In the second year, a creative business found its place.

Feb 2021Recalled in 2023

Life at the time

  • Walks, books, naps and golf lessons filled her first weeks.
  • Her husband unexpectedly left his job soon afterward.

How it felt

  • She felt elated and relieved of accumulated stress. “I was elated”
  • They could decompress together. “An enormous weight was lifted”

FI/RE becomes parenthood and a small software business

2021Recalled in 2026

Life at the time

  • He and his wife spent long nights gaming in Seattle.
  • Occasional attempts at independent development produced little.

How it felt

  • Leisure felt relaxing but directionless. “chill, but also aimless”
  • He wondered whether life had been more fulfilling before FI/RE. “happier and more fulfilling”

He won his freedom—and ran out of goals.

2021 · Year 5

Life at the time

  • Released the album he had wanted to make for years.
  • Reunited with US family and announced plans to stop anniversary updates.

How it felt

  • Recognized that fear of failure, not just employment, had delayed the album. “I was worried I’d fail”
  • Felt exceptional pride in completing it. “it is by far the thing that I’m most proud of”

An arts career grows after the technology career ends

Jan 2020Interview snapshot · published 2020

Life at the time

  • After retiring from technology management at 57, she pursued largely self-funded creative work alongside exercise, travel and helping others.

How it felt

  • She described a busy retirement rather than a slowdown, with family and friends still filling her time. “I have not slowed down at all.”

She quit her career. Years later, she quit performing retirement.

Dec 2019 · Year 2

Life at the time

  • Finished book promotion and limited scheduled commitments.
  • Protected leisurely mornings while keeping creative and service ambitions.

How it felt

  • Valued empty time but felt frustrated when desired projects barely moved. “Protecting my retired time feels paramount, but that has trade-offs”
  • Was firm about keeping mornings free from pressure to accomplish things. “I refuse to accomplish anything in the morning”

Teaching stayed; the career’s daily stress did not

Dec 2019

Life at the time

  • Continued as adjunct faculty and celebrated her birthday with family.
  • Used blogging relationships to develop writing and photography.

How it felt

  • Felt satisfied and energized by university teaching. “walking around campus brings me peace”
  • Appreciated freedom from the old job’s daily stress. “not spend my days dealing with stress”

Family and projects filled the hours. Years later, the pace still belonged to him.

Jun 2019 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Family time and exercise occupied much of the day.
  • Home automation, gardening systems and writing filled his project hours.

How it felt

  • Time with his daughter was the best part of the day. “the last one year has been blissful”
  • He felt very happy, while recognizing that his finances had not faced a bad market cycle. “I did not have a single boring day”

Leaving was celebration enough. A slower life still needed friends.

Jun 2019 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Art, museums and reading became part of a loose daily rhythm.
  • She looked for ways to travel with other people.

How it felt

  • She felt healthier and more herself. “my authentic self”
  • Making friends and spending savings still required adjustment. “still feels a bit unnatural”

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