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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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She loved being retired. She still needed a reason to use her brain.

May 2024 · Year 2

Life at the time

  • Sold her car, moved to Japan and started a year of language school.
  • Set out to spend more freely on food and experiences.

How it felt

  • Saw school as an answer to missing social contact and intellectual challenge; the longer-term result was still open. “Moving to Japan and studying Japanese is my solution to both of them.”
  • Was deliberately practicing enjoyment of her money. “I'm trying to flex my spending muscle”

A three-month trial finally broke the work habit

Feb 2024 · Year 0.25

Life at the time

  • Helped with elder care and a chronically ill relative.
  • Played games, learned cooking and explored a game engine.

How it felt

  • Loved choosing how to spend each day. “every day is Saturday”
  • Preferred modest trips and home life to exhausting constant travel. “It’s the best feeling in the world.”

He planned an ambitious first year. Even a favorite hobby could become too much.

Jan 2024Recalled in 2025

Life at the time

  • Three months in New Zealand tested life away from the office.
  • A painful back injury initially limited his walking.

How it felt

  • He felt no desire to return to commuting. “zero desire to go back”
  • Health was a major reason for making the change. “get back on top of my health”

The projects remain, but the commitments are chosen

Nov 2023 · Year 5Interview snapshot · published 2024-04

Life at the time

  • Five years after his executive career, he maintained properties, learned mechanical skills, pursued music and sometimes used his expertise for paid projects.

How it felt

  • He valued control over his commitments and enjoyed being useful on his own terms. “It feels good to be wanted in this way”

A three-month trial finally broke the work habit

Nov 2023 · At departureRecalled in 2024

Life at the time

  • Finished the last part-time contract.
  • Joined an already-retired spouse in a three-month retirement trial.

How it felt

  • Doubted the ability to stop after always working. “I wasn’t sure I could actually do it”
  • Found the initial adjustment difficult. “It was hard at first”

Comfort came easily. Companionship took longer.

Oct 2023 · Year 11

Life at the time

  • Moved to a quieter life in another city with a partner.
  • Supported her goals and added new learning alongside established hobbies.

How it felt

  • Valued the progress that came from being a beginner again. “The feeling of progress/self improvement is priceless.”
  • Continued to appreciate the reassurance of financial independence. “the peace of mind that FI brings never gets old”

He expected a new life. The reward was being an available father.

Sep 2023 · Year 2

Life at the time

  • Tried museums, travel with a child, audio courses, games and community gardening.
  • Continued adjusting the mix of learning, leisure, service and family.

How it felt

  • Did not regard a satisfying balance as something solved once and for all. “I expect it'll be a lifelong quest to get this balance just right.”
  • Appreciated having time to continue experimenting. “Luckily for me, I have all the time I need.”

Computer science gives way to cooking and music

Sep 2023Interview snapshot · published 2024-03

Life at the time

  • After leaving government computer science, she earned a culinary arts degree, learned piano and harp, and began studying nutrition.

How it felt

  • She described gratitude for retirement and pleasure in pursuing her own interests. “Already retired and loving it…so grateful.”

Retirement and divorce arrived together. A different life still took shape.

Jul 2023 · Year 3

Life at the time

  • Cycling, woodworking, gardening and scuba learning filled his days.
  • Old friendships changed and new people entered his circle.

How it felt

  • He was pleased with how retirement was developing. “absolutely love retirement life”
  • He valued the flexibility to change a day’s plans. “always open to change”

A third language after a third career

May 2023Interview snapshot · published 2023-08

Life at the time

  • Following careers in the military, industry and teaching, he fully retired and learned another language with his wife.

How it felt

  • He enjoyed control of his time and immersion in language learning, while keeping the possibility of adult teaching open. “I also still feel compelled to teach”

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