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Selected life timeline 2021—2026

The portfolio soared. Feeling free took much longer.

u/FIFO-for-LIFO’s wealth raced past the original goal, helped heavily by concentrated technology-stock gains. Emotional confidence moved more slowly. The updates trace anxiety about a closed career door, a working partner’s different schedule and the effort to spend more freely. Five years on, art, languages and chosen consulting were helping replace the identity that money alone could not retire.

Finances
Net worth at retirement2021 · Personal
Not established

No exact departure balance established. A June 2021 sabbatical-era snapshot was $4.25m; later milestone amounts are not starting wealth.

Source
Reported net worth2021-06 · Personal
$4,250,000

Reported during the initial sabbatical; not identified as the balance on the first day.

Source
Posts3
2024Year 3
Post 01

A career door begins to feel closed

“One anxiety that grows is feeling less and less capable of returning to the workforce, which though I shouldn't need to do, does feel like a door closing on ambition and prestige.”

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Life at the time

  • Spent more deliberately on experiences and people close to him.
  • Adjusted to a working partner’s schedule and changing workplace friendships.

How it felt

  • Felt uneasy as returning to a prestigious career seemed less plausible. “a door closing on ambition and prestige”
  • Also reported better health and greater happiness than while working. “I'm a happier, healthier person, with less anxiety.”
IdentityMoneyPartners
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Notes

Update date at the available precision. Recollections, current circumstances and future plans are distinguished in the summary.

Expenses; How I feel about retirement; How relationships are going.

Editorial summaries with short, attributed quotations. The original contains the full story.

2024Year 3
Post 02

Different schedules need a shared routine

“My partner is still working, and while there is some understandable jealousy to my relaxing in bed or other hobbies while they have to work, they're extremely happy for me and our relationship.”

u/FIFO-for-LIFORead original post (opens in a new tab)

Life at the time

  • Built a steadier morning routine while his partner continued working.
  • Spent time on friendships and personal projects.

How it felt

  • Still missed some professional status and technical conversation. “I sometimes miss the prestige and techie conversations”
  • Found that practical habits helped the household live with different schedules. “a decent morning routine”
PartnersRoutineFriends
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Notes

Update date at the available precision. Recollections, current circumstances and future plans are distinguished in the summary.

Do you regret retiring?; How does your partner deal with retirement?

Editorial summaries with short, attributed quotations. The original contains the full story.

2026Year 5
Post 03

Growing into a life beyond the job title

“Anxiety doesn't end at retirement, finding things in my life that bring meaning (Working out, spending time with others, giving back, luxuries ◔‿◔, etc.) has been the most important thing to find contentment.”

u/FIFO-for-LIFORead original post (opens in a new tab)

Life at the time

  • Pursued language learning, art and small consulting projects.
  • Became more willing to pay for comfort and convenience while traveling.

How it felt

  • Recognized that leaving work had not automatically ended anxiety. “Anxiety doesn't end at retirement”
  • Felt his identity had broadened beyond being a programmer. “I feel like a more complete human now than I ever was”
CreativityCuriosityMoney
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Notes

Update date at the available precision. Recollections, current circumstances and future plans are distinguished in the summary.

My life; Why fatFI/RE.

Editorial summaries with short, attributed quotations. The original contains the full story.

Research

Last checked Sep 2026. The accounts are self-reported. This timeline follows selected accounts, including recollections where labeled; it is not a complete archive.

  • The source uses retired and semi-retired at different points and reports some consulting in 2026.
  • An apparent four-pi link in the latest post resolves to the original 2020 post; it is not counted as a distinct update.
  • Large gains reflect concentrated stock exposure. These self-reported outcomes are not evidence of typical retirement returns.
  • The latest title is a $15.71m milestone; its body reports $16.5m. The body figure is used where a current balance is needed.
  • This is a selection of reviewed updates, not a complete account history. No later life outcome is inferred from the absence of another indexed post.

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