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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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A pandemic interrupts the first retirement itinerary

May 2020Interview snapshot · published 2020-06

Life at the time

  • After both retired in November, the couple enjoyed exercise, hiking, volunteering and home projects while travel was on hold.

How it felt

  • They were taking retirement as it came, with future travel and Census work still described as plans. “we are just taking it as it comes.”

He left the office, but a screen could still consume the day.

May 2020 · Year 0.67

Life at the time

  • Markets, side-business tasks and exercise filled much of the day.
  • Tuesday outings and evening time with his wife were regular commitments.

How it felt

  • He enjoyed their mixture of separate and shared interests. “very good together”
  • He noticed how easily computer time expanded. “on the computer way too much”

He escaped the grind. Then learned to stop optimizing every day.

2020 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Built a loose weekly rhythm around climbing, games, films and theater.
  • Spent more time with friends and family, with substantial volunteering still planned.

How it felt

  • Felt calmer and more willing to leave a day unoptimized. “I have a much more laid back attitude with life.”
  • Found that a routine reduced the effort of choosing between appealing activities. “Making decisions takes energy and effort”

The surgeon identity loosened as ordinary days gained room

2020Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • He left full-time surgery while retaining occasional consulting.
  • Professional journals and contact with former colleagues continued.

How it felt

  • Work had shaped his identity for nearly three decades. “defined myself primarily through my work”
  • He was still exploring an identity beyond his profession. “true identity”

He got fifty hours back. The pressure to use them followed him home.

Dec 2019 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Moved to Panama and reorganized family life.
  • Began tackling projects one at a time instead of trying to complete the whole list.

How it felt

  • Pressure to accomplish everything had affected sleep and created stress. “I couldn’t sleep and I was stressing.”
  • Recognized that the deferred ambitions were not all immediately due. “I didn’t need to get everything done at once.”

He protected the weekends—and discovered he wanted to protect the weekdays too.

Oct 2019Recalled in 2020

Life at the time

  • House projects and motorcycling filled the first three months.
  • He spent weekdays at home after years of commuting across states.

How it felt

  • The transition felt unusually smooth. “seamless”
  • He barely thought about his old job. “My newfound freedom”

A social weekly calendar suits this retirement

Sep 2019 · Year 5Interview snapshot · published 2019

Life at the time

  • Five years into retirement, he took part in golf, bridge, Toastmasters, walking, swimming and travel.

How it felt

  • He found the adjustment easy after considering how he wanted to spend his time, and enjoyed retirement more than expected. “I knew I would enjoy it, but not to this extent.”

He left the office, but a screen could still consume the day.

Sep 2019Recalled in 2020

Life at the time

  • He kept his longstanding early-rising routine after leaving the office.
  • A side business continued while accrued leave extended his pay.

How it felt

  • He felt ready and positive about leaving. “It’s been awesome”
  • Keeping balance was harder than finding things to do. “struggled with balance/routine”

The empty calendar felt strange. The gym supplied friends and a beginning.

Jul 2019 · Year 2

Life at the time

  • Pickleball, shared meals and a lunch club supplied regular social contact.
  • Cooking and a weekly movie night became pleasures.

How it felt

  • He no longer timed every task for efficiency. “a clock in my head”
  • Some structure helped them avoid habits they did not want. “Having some structure”

Family and projects filled the hours. Years later, the pace still belonged to him.

Jun 2019 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Family time and exercise occupied much of the day.
  • Home automation, gardening systems and writing filled his project hours.

How it felt

  • Time with his daughter was the best part of the day. “the last one year has been blissful”
  • He felt very happy, while recognizing that his finances had not faced a bad market cycle. “I did not have a single boring day”

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