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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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They left tech together, then discovered two different ways to spend a morning.

Jul 2021Recalled in 2022

Life at the time

  • Both ended software careers earlier than originally planned.
  • They chose a break over another stretch of compensation and stress.

How it felt

  • Leaving professional relationships and technical status was difficult for him. “letting go”
  • They wanted a calmer life together. “a more relaxed life”

Projects without deadlines leave room for play

Jun 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-07

Life at the time

  • He divided retirement between personally chosen projects and unstructured fun, learning welding and experimenting with electronics and programming.

How it felt

  • He welcomed autonomy and deliberately avoided recreating the deadline-driven structure of employment. “The remaining 2/3rds are for unstructured and planned fun.”

Pickleball joins the home-project list

Feb 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-06

Life at the time

  • After leaving nursing in September 2020, she tackled home projects and household work, then joined a gym and began regular pickleball.

How it felt

  • She was surprised by her happiness in retirement, though she still wanted interests beyond an eventually finite project list. “I definitely need to find some new hobbies.”

Swimming, service and a gradual exit from client work

Feb 2021Interview snapshot · published 2021-03

Life at the time

  • He swam, played tennis and drove older neighbors to appointments, while still accepting occasional court-reporting assignments after his 2019 retirement.

How it felt

  • He felt ready to leave full-time work; pandemic restrictions disrupted social life, and spending savings remained uncomfortable. “I am slowly drifting into obscurity as far as work.”

From achievement lists to a life that stays in balance

Oct 2020 · At departureRecalled in 2024

Life at the time

  • Used daily to-do lists after leaving work.
  • Read deeply in philosophy while restricting some gaming ambitions.

How it felt

  • Wanted activities to provide a sense of achievement. “sense of achievement”
  • Had no temptation to return to a job. “never tempted to go back to work”

A home built for family became the base for a surprisingly full calendar

Aug 2020Recalled in 2025

Life at the time

  • They had moved into their custom home in late 2019.
  • Golf and several board positions filled the week.

How it felt

  • The house brought them joy. “brings us joy”
  • They anticipated returning to travel after restrictions. “looking forward”

He retired. His calendar filled with people who needed him.

Jul 2020

Life at the time

  • Grew and preserved food, volunteered at food banks and handled repairs. “Garden is in full swing.”
  • Faced dental and household expenses during a market downturn.

How it felt

  • Accepted that unexpected bills continued after leaving work. “Life Happens.”
  • Gardening remained an active part of daily life alongside those disruptions.

A home routine built around health, learning and people

Jul 2020Interview snapshot · published 2020-11

Life at the time

  • The Financial Freedom Countdown author described a retirement routine of the gym, home cooking, naps, inspiring projects, social time and reading.

How it felt

  • He had traded higher earnings and visible assignments for more control of his time before fully retiring. “This is my current routine when I am at home and not traveling.”

He protected the weekends—and discovered he wanted to protect the weekdays too.

Jun 2020 · Year 0.5

Life at the time

  • He kept chores on weekdays so weekends remained special.
  • Consulting, coaching and teaching plans met the disruption of COVID-19.

How it felt

  • Even appealing assignments competed with his new freedom. “I was hooked on it”
  • He missed colleagues occasionally but felt no regret about leaving. “never had any second thoughts”

Two different transitions led to a shared slower pace

May 2020

Life at the time

  • Gym sessions and household projects filled weekdays.
  • They stayed in different southern rentals each winter.

How it felt

  • Both valued fewer outside commitments. “much slower”
  • She missed workplace socializing more than he did. “more relaxed”

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