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They left tech together, then discovered two different ways to spend a morning.

Feb 2022 · Year 0.5

Life at the time

  • He followed a loose morning program of exercise and learning.
  • She favored unscheduled afternoons; both volunteered with aspiring engineers.

How it felt

  • They noticed greater patience with each other. “more patient with each other”
  • She still sometimes questioned leaving at peak earning power. “the right decision”

Money settled before identity and friendship did

2022 · Year 1Recalled in 2024

Life at the time

  • Began sustained foreign-language study.
  • Kept first-year spending below an already reduced budget.

How it felt

  • Felt uneasy switching from saving to spending. “a little nerve wracking”
  • Decompression from a career took more than a year. “well over a year”

The surgeon identity loosened as ordinary days gained room

Dec 2021

Life at the time

  • Dog walks, exercise and home projects shaped ordinary days.
  • He could fly out to help elderly relatives.

How it felt

  • He appreciated his ample free time without boredom. “do not get bored”
  • He still missed the relationships and satisfaction of surgery. “prestige and satisfaction”

Leaving the always-on director role

Oct 2021Interview snapshot · published 2022-04

Life at the time

  • After a corporate reorganization, he left engineering leadership and devoted attention to investing, while considering more volunteering.

How it felt

  • He welcomed the improved balance and remained open to interesting work rather than declaring every future job off limits. “Though if something interesting comes along I will think about.”

Part-time travel helped a physician find his place at home

Sep 2021

Life at the time

  • In Mexico, he taught and graded his teenagers’ classes.
  • Regular meetups with local and expat families built connections.

How it felt

  • He no longer missed work. “don’t miss work at all”
  • He preferred retirement after finding a place in family life. “prefer retired life”

A market shock tested confidence; beach life made the trade worthwhile

Aug 2021Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • Life near the beach included longer winter Hawaii trips.
  • Optional consulting supplied intellectual stimulation.

How it felt

  • Monthly withdrawals had finally begun to feel comfortable. “Life is amazing”
  • He valued freedom while sometimes envying former peers’ promotions. “moments of FOMO”

Leaving at thirty-four brought room to explore—and discomfort with withdrawals

Jul 2021Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • Running became a new hobby.
  • He used summer for family time and exploration.

How it felt

  • Running quieted his mind. “quiet”
  • Withdrawing money felt harder than expected. “harder than I expected”

They left tech together, then discovered two different ways to spend a morning.

Jul 2021Recalled in 2022

Life at the time

  • Both ended software careers earlier than originally planned.
  • They chose a break over another stretch of compensation and stress.

How it felt

  • Leaving professional relationships and technical status was difficult for him. “letting go”
  • They wanted a calmer life together. “a more relaxed life”

Leaving at thirty-four brought room to explore—and discomfort with withdrawals

May 2021Recalled in 2021

Life at the time

  • He quit a long-held controls-engineering job.
  • Investment income replaced most of the household salary.

How it felt

  • He had lost faith in his boss. “lost faith”
  • He was unsure what he wanted to do next. “a bit lost”

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