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Selected life timeline 2015—2021

He learned to stop being busy. Then life overturned the plan.

Living a FI first found relief by abandoning the need to make every day productive. Years later, a breakup, health changes and isolation pushed him toward paid work again. His return was a revision of the life he wanted, while the portfolio remained substantial.

Finances
Net worth at retirement2015 · Personal
$950,000

Approximate personal assets reported retrospectively, including $60,000 cash. Spouse’s assets are separate.

Source
Posts2
2015
Post 01

Leaving busyness behind

“Instead of maintaining the same pace of life, I’m slowing down — living more by doing less.”

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Life at the time

  • Kept running, music and family time in the week.
  • Left more room for unplanned activities, including a spontaneous dinner.

How it felt

  • Found value in a less crowded calendar. “living more by doing less.”
  • Questioned the need to prove personal worth through constant busyness. “Screw fake-busy-status.”
RecoverySlowing down
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Notes

Publication date at available precision. Retirement milestones follow the author’s own count; a missing milestone is not inferred.

Closing reflections on activity, family and fake busyness.

Editorial summaries with short, attributed quotations. The original contains the full story.

2021
Post 02

The plan gives way to a different life

“My life decided it didn’t want to conform to the plan.”

Living a FIRead original post (opens in a new tab)

Life at the time

  • A relationship ended and a health condition disrupted running and familiar routines.
  • Returned to paid work and began a new relationship.

How it felt

  • Found that the original retirement plan no longer matched his circumstances. “My life decided it didn’t want to conform to the plan.”
  • Reported being happy again in a life that had changed shape. “I’m generally happy now.”
ChangeWorkIdentity
Living a FI (opens in a new tab)
Notes

Publication date at available precision. Retirement milestones follow the author’s own count; a missing milestone is not inferred.

Relationship, health, isolation and return-to-work sections.

Editorial summaries with short, attributed quotations. The original contains the full story.

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Research

Last checked Sep 2026. The accounts are self-reported. This timeline follows selected accounts, including recollections where labeled; it is not a complete archive.

  • The later article retrospectively describes several years, including a return to work. This is not a story of uninterrupted retirement. Relationship events are the author’s account.

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