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u/jgatcomb left federal work at 46. A serious illness soon made the value of that decision painfully concrete: time could go to treatment and family without competing with a job. The next update reported recovery and renewed travel plans, with a sharper sense that the future should not be taken for granted.

u/hows_my_fi remains emphatic about leaving work at 45. The complications came elsewhere: a market slump, a partner’s unexpected job offer, a move and another roof. Across seven years, the relief survives repeated budget shocks. This is retirement with a full life and an uneven expense ledger, rather than a plan that runs untouched.

u/jayybonelie left work at 45 with plenty of interests still ahead. Reading, running, making things and family life gave retirement momentum. The later update turns away from another optimization project: quiet, unplanned time and less social media had become part of the point.

After leaving software engineering at 37, re-ynd made room for his daughter, exercise and personal projects. As she grew more independent, his days changed while his preference for an unhurried life held steady.

A layoff prompted a gradual departure: a few hours selling advertising each week, followed by closure of the business. By 2026, skiing and daily walks had replaced commuting, and spending felt less threatening than it did immediately after leaving corporate work.

Following a business sale, the couple exercised, walked dogs, read, helped elderly parents and enjoyed concerts; he also offered free consulting. He welcomed control of his time after gradually delegating responsibility over many years.

An unexpected job loss brought retirement forward. The Ohio household’s first year included market anxiety and home improvements; sixteen months in, gardening, cooking and dog walks felt sufficient even as their investment balance grew.

Leaving a demanding FinTech role quickly made space for household projects and family. A year later, the author still missed none of the job, but found greater happiness by bringing calendars and personally chosen goals back into retirement.

Alex left Meta after reaching his FI/RE target, but open-ended leisure felt aimless. Children changed both his days and his financial needs. Developing his own app offered an alternative to corporate work, with new creative satisfaction and continuing uncertainty.

ESI’s first year combined a regular exercise habit with a strong dislike of unnecessary appointments. Nearly a decade later, chosen work, family and unhurried mornings still defined the gain. His account is a counterweight to the idea that every retiree needs more commitments.