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Explore turning points, everyday joys and unexpected challenges after financial independence or retirement, with the date and original source for each account.

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Learning to retire, then learning to leave a beloved project

Sep 2025

Life at the time

  • She paused blogging to support her son after a serious cycling accident.
  • After returning home, she announced the end of regular blog writing.

How it felt

  • She felt grateful for her son’s recovery and support around him. “ready for something new”
  • Unexpectedly deep blogging friendships made the decade feel valuable. “deep and lasting friendships”

An early retirement makes room for travel, then consulting

Sep 2025Interview snapshot · published 2026-01

Life at the time

  • He recalled spending his first retirement visiting friends, road-tripping, cycling, hiking and studying sustainable living before trying consulting tied to a software project.

How it felt

  • Neither business direction worked out as hoped; in the later interview he described a reasonably balanced life. “Right now, it’s reasonably balanced for me.”

Retirement gave him time. A diagnosis showed why that mattered.

Jul 2025

Life at the time

  • A serious diagnosis redirected attention toward health and family.
  • Asked for help continuing community resources while priorities changed.

How it felt

  • Valued being able to direct time toward urgent personal needs. “Your life SHOULD be your own.”
  • Had already found retirement busy; leaving work did not mean an empty calendar. “I have been busier now then before I retired.”

Leaving work was the easy part. The house kept sending bills.

Jul 2025 · Year 6

Life at the time

  • Sold the home and relocated after his partner received a job offer. “we had to relocate”
  • Bought another home and sold investments to create a larger cash buffer. “I sold some stocks to make a bigger ‘buffer’”

How it felt

  • Retirement gave the household flexibility to follow a partner’s career.
  • Wanted less worry about day-to-day market moves.

Family plans stop competing with work commitments

Feb 2025Interview snapshot · published 2025-04

Life at the time

  • After leaving salaried work, the couple's days filled with their children's activities and physical activity.

How it felt

  • They valued freedom from scheduling conflicts, while keeping travel and a possible future work or volunteer role open. “not have to be worried about conflicts between work and family plans.”

He enjoyed becoming less important. Moving away from friends was the harder change.

Jan 2025 · Year 2.75

Life at the time

  • Exercise, home projects, live music and trips filled their Florida days.
  • Old friends visited while new local connections grew slowly.

How it felt

  • He found relief in no longer being professionally important. “real peacefulness in being unimportant”
  • Financial optimization still occupied more mental space than expected. “money remains a topic in my head”

A year without work proved the exit was real.

2025

Life at the time

  • Began a deliberate trial of life without work.
  • Kept cash accessible instead of immediately paying off the mortgage.

How it felt

  • Enjoyed the first two weeks away without a return date looming. “I've really enjoyed the time off.”
  • Wanted financial flexibility while testing whether the break could continue. “I simply don't want to tie up the money”

Redundancy became a retirement worth keeping

Dec 2024 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • Volunteered with several charities using practical and professional skills.
  • Talked through the working spouse’s challenges and supported her.

How it felt

  • Felt happier and less stressed doing useful things. “Much happier and less stressed”
  • Sometimes felt embarrassed explaining retirement to people in essential jobs. “embarrassed by your privilege”

She could fund a free life. Parenthood still demanded almost everything.

Sep 2024

Life at the time

  • Spent the first year parenting with both adults available at home.
  • Continued traveling while adapting to feeding, mobility and other childcare demands.

How it felt

  • Found parenting exhausting even with financial independence. “it’s still a struggle.”
  • Also described growing enjoyment and affection as her child developed. “The reward is the process of parenting itself.”

Her maternity leave became retirement. Parenting kept the calendar full.

Sep 2024 · Year 1

Life at the time

  • School runs, children’s illnesses and family routines structured the week.
  • Small coaching projects and reconnecting with friends fit between those demands.

How it felt

  • Watching the children develop was deeply rewarding. “extremely rewarding”
  • Travel with young children proved more exhausting than she had anticipated. “pretty exhausting”

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