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For u/a_marie_z, the first reward was staying home without exhaustion or holiday travel obligations. Books, cooking and skiing filled the days. The second year brought a more outward-looking question: how to become part of a community after a pandemic-era move. Library volunteering offered a beginning.

This couple left California careers for a nomadic life close to their European roots. An initial concern about empty days quickly faded. Family visits, mountains, museums and new subjects filled the space, while independent projects kept her husband engaged.

Jacob Lund Fisker used financial independence to explore skills and occupations, including a full-time finance role after leaving physics. Later, practical projects still absorbed him, but he was candid that competence did not make home maintenance or bought experiences enjoyable.

MrFireStation’s first year exposed a gap between imagined hobbies and activities he actually wanted to do. By year three, the strongest routine was social: reaching out, making plans and keeping separate morning interests before shared evenings. A good retirement needed initiative as well as time.

Ermine left a stressful career and found that recovery took much longer than expected. Two years later, varied practical and creative projects fit him better than a narrow job role, although spending savings still felt uncomfortable.