Questions about life after FI/RE

Life after work raises plenty of questions. See how different people answer them through the lives they’ve built.

38 questions · 101 people · In their own words

Travel & home

Will full-time travel stay enjoyable?

Some people love extended travel, while others discover that the planning and movement eventually feel like work.

Slower stays can make travel deeply rewarding

Near the end of five months in Britain and Ireland, monthly rentals supported cooking, reading, hiking and tennis. She described freedom, gratitude and a stronger marriage.

“Still grateful, still in disbelief.”

u/NordicDarling Oct 2025 · Year 1.5 Read original by u/NordicDarling (opens in a new tab)

You may want a break from constant movement

He paused nonstop travel to spend time with family and build healthier routines, trying a temporary stay in Tulsa while retaining his Texas home.

“Travelling nonstop was starting to feel like a chore”

u/ihasanemail Aug 2024 · Year 6 Read original by u/ihasanemail (opens in a new tab)

The itinerary changes while travel stays appealing

The couple extended RV travel during the pandemic and continued to consider overseas destinations.

“The RVing part of this plan was extended for another 9 months due to COVID.”

ESI Millionaire 297 Oct 2021 Interview snapshot · published 2022-03 Read original by ESI Millionaire 297 (opens in a new tab)
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Should I keep a home base?

A home can support family and familiar routines, but ownership and maintenance can also restrict a life built around travel.

A home base can coexist with continued travel

A year after establishing a home base near family, she reported feeling settled while still planning substantial travel with her now-retired partner.

“I think we’ve settled into it nicely.”

A Purple Life Oct 2026 · Year 6 Read original by A Purple Life (opens in a new tab)

Managing a house can become more burden than benefit

They sold their Argentina home and continued traveling. The work attached to the house had become less worthwhile to them.

“more trouble than it was worth”

Paul & Vicki Terhorst 2014 · Year 30 Read original by Paul & Vicki Terhorst (opens in a new tab)

Rent before choosing another permanent base

Winter rentals let the couple explore different locations without immediately buying a second home.

“we have now opted to rent (Airbnb) instead”

ESI Millionaire 164 Mar 2020 Interview snapshot · published 2020 Read original by ESI Millionaire 164 (opens in a new tab)
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Does moving abroad make retirement better?

A move can create a satisfying life, but it also changes social connections and can turn out differently from the plan.

The community can be what makes a place work

An art studio, newsletter and farm kept them engaged. They described joyful lives and valued the people around them as a reason to stay.

“the people are what keep us here”

Darrell & Amy Bushnell 2017 · Year 11 2017 interview shared again in 2024 Read original by Darrell & Amy Bushnell (opens in a new tab)

A change of country can compound the adjustment

In Cyprus, improved sleep and exercise coexisted with doubts about retirement. Making local connections was slow, and worries about money and employability remained.

“I’m finding this really difficult”

RIT · Retirement Investing Today Jan 2019 Read original by RIT · Retirement Investing Today (opens in a new tab)

Building community remains part of the move

She enjoyed retirement in Lisbon while working to create local connections and maintain ties back home.

“I don’t want to have the biggest bank balance in the cemetery!”

ESI Millionaire 420 Jun 2024 Interview snapshot · published 2024-10 Read original by ESI Millionaire 420 (opens in a new tab)
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Is it normal to want less travel than I expected?

Some people shorten trips or stop seeking travel because home life becomes more satisfying.

Shorter trips can fit a life with roots

Long journeys made them miss home. They settled near friends and beach activities, combining trips of a few weeks with bounded consulting work.

“we missed home too much”

Steve & Lynn Miller 2019 · Year 7 Read original by Steve & Lynn Miller (opens in a new tab)

A satisfying daily life may reduce the urge to get away

Walking, cycling, cooking and handling repairs suited Chris. With life already satisfying, he felt little need for more travel or higher spending.

“nothing to escape from”

Chris Reining Jul 2018 Read original by Chris Reining (opens in a new tab)
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Questions reflect recurring discussions about life after financial independence, not a measured ranking of search volume. Answers are editorial readings of selected self-reported accounts, not statements written in response to these questions. Quotes retain the wording and attribution recorded in our existing research. Experiences differ; dates refer to the documented life moment, with recollections labeled where applicable. Updated with September 30 interview research. Single snapshots and accounts of semi-retirement, work after FI and later-life retirement are labeled; these comparisons are not predictions of individual outcomes.

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